When couples confront infertility in secret, with little or no support, aided by an expert they hope will work miracles and a faith that feels increasingly feeble, their fear is often palpable. Isolated, anxious, afraid to contemplate “what if we fail?” – they are grateful for the smallest encouragement.
That’s why I write this blog. That’s also why I encourage couples to share their stories with one another – and then, to seek spiritual sustenance that points them toward true hope.
If you are in the midst of a journey that seems hopeless, if you’re longing to hear that there’s still reason to believe that God is working in and through your circumstances, listen to the voices of some other aspiring parents who’ve written to me….
“Susan – I have so appreciated reading your blog over the last 6 months — often your message is just exactly what I need to hear that day and so insightful into this journey. Thank you for taking the time to write.” – Lisa
“Susan – I found your site in April when I was at rock bottom with infertility. At that point, all I needed was some hope, and your site brought that. Going through infertility has made me grow in ways I have never thought possible. I have truly felt God working in my life and helping me with my pain. I found that I run to Him so much more now! Anyway, after hitting bottom, we are expecting twins. Thank you for your help, your resources, and your guidance. God bless you as you continue on in this ministry.” – Kelli
“Hi Susan – We are a Christian couple from Romania and we try to have children. We realized something is wrong and we consult a doctor. He told us we are less than 15 percent to have a child. My husband was so disappointed he refused to preach anymore and turned angry to God. Today I was wondering if I can find some encouragement and looking on Youtube I found you. I needed to know somebody understands. Thank you for hope.” – Elena
“Hi Susan – Your blog is a blessing and I have recommended it to several friends in the midst of infertility struggles. God used the words from your blog to give me perspective and to help sustain me during this journey. I wanted you to know we are due this week with our miracle IVF daughter and are beyond thrilled. THANK YOU!!” – Melissa
“Dear Susan – THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE BLOG. I don’t think I ever let God help me out cause I was too stubborn to let God take the lead. But now he’s my only hope! Thanks for the encouraging words and please don’t stop writing. Your words have given a whole new meaning to this journey. My life is in the hands of the almighty. There is nothing impossible for him!” – Pushpa
“Susan – Just to let you know that God has used your book to minister to me and I am very grateful. Sometimes, I feel like I’m the one writing. Your book has made me realize that God did not pull away from me, but I pulled away from him. Thank you. Remain blessed.” – Javita
“Susan – I want to thank you –you have helped me have hope and faith and the desire to be more open to things and look at them differently and I thank you deeply for that. We are perfect strangers but you put out your hand for me and I was smart enough to take it. Thank you for the huge source of support you’ve been to me. I wanted to let you know that our miracle has arrived! God Bless you and all you do.” – Andrea
“Hi Susan – I just wanted to say THANK YOU for your blog. I haven’t spent much time on most other infertility sites because they tended to make me feel more depressed or desperate. But now I turn to your blog multiple times a week for a reminder of God’s love and an extra dose of hope through the struggle.
Your words hit right at the heart of the matter so many times and always provide much needed encouragement. Thanks for taking the time to allow God to speak through you to provide hope to so many who are struggling with infertility.” – Cindy
“Dear Susan – Thank you for your inspirational messages. I must give God all the glory and honor for leading me to find your blog – it impacts lives! I can’t say which of your stories, of many, impacted my life the most. May God always bless you for being a blessing to so many. Our little girl that we will welcome into our world in April is a miracle!” – Darlene
“Dear Susan – It has been a dream for the past 9 years… and now, I’ve received word that I’m pregnant! I’m amazed. The night before I got the news, I read Psalm 139 and every word spoke to me. As soon as I got the news, I got on my knees and thanked God about 50-75 times.” – Melissa
“Dear Susan – After a 10-year battle with infertility, my husband and I finally conceived and now have twin girls. I truly believe God set us on this path to help others. Through lots of prayer and searching for His purpose we believe we are to offer hope and support to others enduring infertility, so we are starting a support group. Your book will be the resource we use. Thanks so much!” – Alesha
Wish one of these good news emails was from you? Don’t give up hope. Cling to the One with the power to make all things possible. Trust that the hope He gives is always fulfilled — according to His purposes, in His perfect timing. Let go of fear, set aside doubt, and let Him take control. He will respond to your trust with blessings “beyond what you can ask or imagine.”
To Him be the glory.
2 responses to “Sharing Stories”
Thank you for the encouragement, Susan. I also read your blog often. It’s bookmarked, and I come and read your postings when I’m at a low point. Now would be one of those low points. I’m weary and tired of this journey, but I wanted to thank you for being faithful to point me to Jesus no matter what. Blessings.
Hi Susan… it’s Lisa! Your post about sharing stories has inspired me to finally write you (and my fellow friends facing infertility) and share my news– I am 20 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby girl! We are so amazed at the many many ways God worked to heal us and change us along the way as we longed for this miracle. Now that we are standing in the middle of it, we are surprised to discover that we are MOST grateful for the things God has done to lead us here…and this beautiful baby is like an extra gift that we feel overwhelmed to receive. Thank you again and again for all your wonderful words and prayers of encouragement that have pointed me to the truth of God’s heart for me.